Grief is a common human experience, but our experience with it is anything but common.
Grief. There are probably thousands of posts, poems, writings, books, and articles on the internet concerning the experience of bereavement. Here are a few writings that I thought were especially helpful and encouraging. Some I simply resonated with, some brought a new thought or idea to my heart. You may find some here that do not resonate with you – and that’s OK. Everyone’s experience with grief has unique personal components that can’t be addressed in every writing. But I do hope you find some peace, comfort, and a knowledge that you are not alone – the world is full of people who are experiencing grief. Please let me know if you find a link that does not work.
Updated 9.3.20
International Grief Organizations
Links to Pages with Helps for Grieving People
Holidays and Grief: Thanksgiving Plan
Pat Bertram’s Blog Posts on Grief
104 Helpful Tips for Managing Grief and Loss During the Holidays – Devon Jorge
21 Comforting Bible Verses for Hard times – Christine Abraham
56 Invaluable Bible Verses for Hard Times – Christine Abraham
Grief Resources – Creighton University
A Bed for My Heart – Angela Miller
Caring for Grieving Hearts – Gary Roe
What I’ve Learned in Ten Years of the Grief Journey – John Dobbs
I’m Alive 2 Thrive – Stephanie Payne
Marc’s Justice – Diane De Han (homicide)
God Understands When You Feel Sadness and Grief
Five Prayers for a Grieving Heart
Dealing with Grief During the Holiday Season
How to Deal with Grief During the Holidays
64 Tips for Coping with Grief at the Holidays
Coping with Loss Resource List of 115 Sites
Unspoken Grief – miscarriage, stillbirth, neonatal loss
Resources for Survivors of Suicide
Grief and Substance Abuse Recovery
Meeting God at The Shack: The Great Sadness – Dr. John Mark Hicks
The Dragonfly – Doris Stickney
Simple Prayers for the Grieving Heart – Jennifer O. White
Praising God While Grieving – Jennifer O. White
The ‘A’ Word No One Wants to Face in Grief – Judy Brizendine
The ‘I’ Word that Hits Grievers – Judy Brizendine
The ‘O’ Word that Hits Grievers – Judy Brizendine
Other Grief Articles by Judy Brizendine
Moving From Hopeless to Hopeful – Charles W. Sidoti
A Healing Fog -Gretchen Schmelzer
Silent Grief – Miscarriage support – Clara Hinton
GriefShare – Sign up for daily email
Blessings for the Dailiness of Grief – Jan Richardson
What is “Normal” When Talking About Grief – Amy Barger
6 Realities of Grief I Learned From the Death of My Wife – Joe McKeever
Grief Landscapes -an evolving photographic exploration of people’s experiences with grief and bereavement. – Mindy Stricke
Forgiving God: A Testimony – Dr. John Mark Hicks
Easter Morning: From Joshua’s Grave to Joyful Assembly – Dr. John Mark Hicks
May 21 – A Day of Grief Shared With John and Maggie Dobbs – Dr. John Mark Hicks
Holy Saturday – Sitting By The Grave – Dr. John Mark Hicks
My Own Thoughts On Loss, Grief & Bereavement – Joseph R. Agoglia
Scripture Verses Which Offer Comfort – compiled by Justin J. Agoglia
Six Things I Wish People Knew About Grieving the Loss of a Child – Malka Ahmed
Grief Resources – Articles by Ashley Davis Bush
Hope for the Thanksgiving Holiday
The Day I’ll Finally Stop Greiving – John Pavlovitz
When the Holidays Aren’t Jolly – Paul O’Rear
Acquainted With Grief – Oswald Chambers
Comfort in Any Season – Phil Ware
Preparing for the Holidays – Randy Becton
Thoughts on Death – Thomas a Kempis
Grieving is Personal – Bonnie
Invisible Grief? Reflections on Miscarriage – Nicole L. Johnson
Coping with Death and Grief – Patricia Johnson
Cardinals Appear When Angels Are Near
What My Sons Death Taught Me About Grief – Victoria Lemley
64 Things I Wish Someone Had Told Me About Grief
12 Simple Ways to Support a Grieving Friend Over the Holidays – Lori Pederson
What I Wish More People Understood About Losing a Child – Paula Stephens
Guilt (a .pdf) -Darcie D. Sims
How to Recover From Life’s Worst Disasters – Rick Warren
Helping Bereaved People -George G. Galdiano (.pdf 107-page reference booklet)
Quotes About Grief – Lisa Athan
Why Does God Allow Suffering and Tragedy? – Lee Strobel
Grief at Five Years – Pam McCutcheon
Naming The Loss (on miscarriage) – Jonathan Storment
Consider the Ravens – Margaret Manning Shull
How Can I Know If I’m Getting Better? – Helen Fitzgerald
How to Deal With Grief When The World Goes Dark, Part One – Dr. Todd Hall
Memories: A Poem of Grief and Hope – Dr. Todd Hall
A World of Difference by Sally Gary
There are many other resources. Some are specifically for certain kinds of loss. There is something cathartic in reading the experiences of others and knowing you are not alone. If this list helps you, I am happy to share it. If you find links that no longer work, please alert me!
Thanks for reading,
John